| Location | Boroughbridge |
| Age | 49 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 26/02/1960 |
| Date of Death | 30/07/2009 |
| Visitors | 336 since 08/08/2009 |
| Creator |
My mum Elaine passed away on 30th July 2009 aged 49, leaving behind me 19, and my 2 brothers James 22, and Jonathan 17.
Mum was born in Glasgow in Februray 1960 and later moved to England in her late teens. She married her first husband Ken in 1985 and in 1987 they had there first son and my brother James. Sadly Ken passed away shortly after.
In 1989 my Mum married my Dad who she had known for years before and had they had me and my younger brother Joanathan.
My mum was such a friendly person, she was my friend as well as my mum, i could tell her things that lots of other girls my age couldnt tell there parents. She was so down to earth and honest. Mum had her problems but then again so does everyone.
I love and miss my mum so much its unreal but i want to remember the good times that we had.
All my love forever.... Chloe x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
Almost 2 Years
I cant quite believe that next week it wll be 2 years since youve been gone. It has gone far too quick yet each day i think about you but it doesnt make it seem any sooner ago that i last saw or spoke to you. We're all doing ok and coping but that doesnt mean that we dont wish you were still with us. I just wish that you were still here but acting the way that we loved you most. The caring Mum that we knew you could be. I'll say it again, its just not fair!!! x x x x
Wendy
Hi Mum
Only me again, i saw Wendy yesterday for the first time in a while, didnt get chance to speak to her but she said hello. Its weird when i do see her tho, cos since you've been gone we dont speak much and it feels a bit awkward, i dunno whether its just me or if i've done something wrong? I know she misses you, you were her best friend, she puts a song on facebook sometimes that reminds her of you which is sweet . I miss the times we used to go up to hers when we'd all sing on the SingStar (well try to anyway) Sugar must've wanted to kill us shrieking like idiots while he played computer!!!Those were good times that i prefer to remember. She was really good to me when you were ill and helped me out with things but now it feels like we hardly know each other. Maybe we might speak more again some other time. Thought id let you know id seen her im sure she still cares about ya and misses ya loadz.
Talk soon Mum
love you
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Mothers Day
Just a quick note to tell ya that i'll be thinking of you all day on Sunday which is Mothers Day, its not fair that you're not here for it, thats the whole point, i just want you here Mum id give anything. You'll be on my mind all day, i just want you to know how much i miss you even though you were a cow at times! I'll never stop loving you though cos thats just how we are and you're my Mum. I Love You x x x x
Just dropping by to say a quick hello, visited your grave the day before your birthday with some flowers and a card for you hope you liked them. Love ya loads mum take care up there x x x x
Nearly that time again Mum, your birthday, me and gran will be doing something to remember it, you should be here for it tho, its just not fair! x x x x x x x
Wish you were here to help
Only me again Mum, could do with some of your harsh advice right now, my head seems such a muddle lately could really do with a chat. Come back please i'll do anything miss ya more and more every day love you forever x x x
Hi Mum,
Just dropping by to say a quick hello, will need to come down to your grave again soon so that i can talk yo you properly. I know i say it everytime im here but i miss you like crazy still its just not right that i carnt talk to you in person. I know Jog is missing you more than ever lately cos we spoke about it on our way back from Dads last time. Jog takes me in his car now, you should be proud cos he's a good driver. Grans sold her house as well now which means that we'll be saying bye to another piece of you cos i know how much you loved that house and always said you'd wanted it. Im sure she'd give you it as well if it meant that you could come back cos you dying has really affected her, even more that it did when Granda died. It isn't fair that both her children have died before her but you know Gran she is strong and she copes well with it. Will be your birthday next month, 51 can you believe it, its mad Mum, you were far too young to die. Anyway i'm gonna go now before i start getting angry. Sleep tight Mum.
Love ya lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I swear you came to see me last night mum, i was laid trying to sleep and it just felt like you were in the room, it was like i could hear your voice but i couldnt see you, i really wish i could though, its getting near christmas now and i STILL carnt believe your not here for it, it hurts mum really hurts cos you should be! i love you x x x x
Mum,
you dont know how much i miss you, its not fair that youre not here any more, i never stop thinkin about you, just wish that you had listened to us all and let us try to help you, i get so angry at you some times because you let this happen then i stop and think that if you had known deep down that this was gonna happen, then the mum that we knew would have done something about it cos i know in my heart that you didnt want it to end like this. I feel like ive been robbed of my mum and part of my teenage years cos ive had to grow up so fast, its my 21st birthday in a few weeks and you should be here to celebrate it with me and it just wont be the same now. If i could do anything to bring you back then belive me i would. I know that in your dark days you thought that we all didnt love you no matter how hard we tried to drum it into you that we did because we wouldnt have been around you and tried to support you if not. I try to remember the happy times that i spent with you but its so hard because of the last 2 weeks that i spent at your bedside in the hospital. The worst thing was the nurse taking me to one side and explaining that you wern't going to make it and it was just a matter of waiting for you to pass away. Even after she had told me i still couldnt and didnt wanna believe it. Its soo hard Mum, even after over a year im still struggling to come to terms with it. Im hoping that in time i'll begin to stop the anger and understand that you are at peace now even if its not the way it should be. NOW I HOPE YOU'RE UP THERE LISTENING.....I LOVE YOU AND NEVER STOP LOVING YOU!!! and gran and your boys James and Jog love you too! Sleep tight Mum, sending big kisses up into the sky for you x x x x x
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